Losing Feelings?

There comes a point in relationship, when a person may think their counterpart is losing feelings. Or maybe even you may be the person who is losing feelings. It is very natural for this to happen, especially if you have been in a long-term relationship. There were times that I would sit and home, and wonder "why hasn't he called me yet?" or "why is he taking so long to text me back?" There are different ways to see if he is losing feelings for you. If he is generally a cool-tempered man, or very loving towards you, and out of no where he starts acting differently. Or even rude. Do not immediately jump to conclusions. He may be stressed about work, family, or even money. True, he should not take it out on you, but that does it mean he doesn't still care for you. Simply ask him is he stressed out about anything because he has been lashing out at you lately. He may not have even realized that he has been mean to you, and may tell you what is going on in life. If he still seems to act like a fool, and you can not pinpoint a reason for the anger he may just be tired of you plain and simple. Because if you do not care for someone and they are constantly bothering you, it can get very annoying.

If you are the person that is losing the feelings, ask yourself "could i really see this going somewhere?" if the answer is no, then do not waste yours or his time, because there may be someone out there better for the both of you. Try to split amicably, and you may even to able to remain friends or at least civil. If the answer is yes, you see a future with this person, then you may want to ask yourself what is making you lose feelings? It may be habits that he has, (burping, farting, being inconsiderate..etc) ---things such as this can be worked on *IF YOU HAVE THE PATIENCE!* you can sit down and do the old fashion, make a lists of likes & dislikes about him, and if your dislikes are something that can be changed then you may still be able to save your relationship. If he has an anger problem, for example, and you have pointed it out to him, and he still has not even attempted to try to fix it then bye-bye boyfriend.

Another thing that may work for you is to take a break. An actual break not a "I dont wanna be mean and say its over but it really is" break. But an actual break where you intend on getting back together. The break should not be a free-for-all hofest. But you should take the time to reflect on your relationship, and see how life is with out. If you feel a sense of peace without him, it may be best if you part ways. However, if you missing him, and you are feeling in your heart that the break was a mistake, this may have just been the eye-opener you needed and you and your partner may just need to re-evaluate your relationship a bit.

All in all, if you truly love someone you always will until the end of time, and if you find yourself no longer loving them, truth is you never did!